When someone ask you whether to choose this or that, whether to do this or that, most would answer "Follow your heart". But maybe, I won't say that. If you know what your heart is thinking, do you still ask whether to do this or that? Or you are asking just to confirm your choice is right? Honestly, how can I get the answer when I don't even know what my heart is thinking?



There's one thinking that I don't know whether it's right. When a married woman opt for abortion, and after aborting the baby, that's the end of the marriage, especially if the guy really really hopes for a child. Exception is unhealthy baby. It's really cruel to kill the baby, even if you don't want the baby to come to this world of suffering. You not only killed your own baby, but also ended your marriage yourself. Problems will start to arise. The guy will blame you. Both start to drift away. At that point, you should not blame others for the problems or the third party breaking up your marriage, because you are the starter of the problems.

No intention to offend anyone with the above post. Purely my thoughts...